Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Disputing and Arguing

I've been so incredibly blessed with this group of girls this year!  They really are a great group of gals :)  Our last meeting before summer break will be on June 8th...are you looking forward to summer as much as I am?  Our topic this past week was Disputing and Arguing, and here are a couple shots of the girls playing a really fun game that focuses on working together...




Bright Lights Set 5 Meeting 5 Disputing and Arguing

Listen to BL CD
Story of Joseph in Gen. 37
Personal Testimonies

Sword Drills:
Prov. 18:19
Prov. 17:14
Prov. 25:8 – 12
Rom. 14:19
Eph. 4:2

Read together…Phil.2:1 – 15 and Col. 3:12 – 25

Main Concepts:

In this set we keep seeing over and over how our words are so important.  This meeting is just another example of how hurtful or healing our words can be.

Each of us is going to face irritations and conflicts in our relationships with others.  The key is learning how to handle these conflicts in a godly way.  To do this, we must first of all learn to overcome our natural, human reactions, and secondly, learn to replace them with Chirst-like responses – such as humility, meekness, and overcoming evil with good.

When it comes to winning or losing an argument, we need to understand that the “loser” is actually the “winner”.  The one who is willing to give in and humbly “esteem others better than themselves” is the true winner in God’s eyes.  Once again, God’s thinking is exactly opposite to our own natural inclinations.

This is hard.  We need help – we can’t do it on our own.  Well, God has promised that He will give some very special help to some specific people – those who humble themselves (1 Pet. 5:5)!  If we look for ways to humble ourselves every day, we can expect God to work on our behalf in a mighty way.

“Blessed are the peacemakers:  for they shall be called the children of God.”  Matthew 5:9

BYMPC

Read aloud

Activities and Tea Time


Monday, May 12, 2014

Set 5 Review

After not having a meeting in over a month, a review was in order for this past Sunday's meeting, so we took another look at the topics covered in Set 5...Gratefulness, Complaining and Murmuring, Gossip, and Disrespect.

We also got to read our letters from a new pen pal group that is right here in our state!  A big hello to the Cle Elum Bright Lights group :)



Gratefulness

-          An attitude of gratefulness is only possible if we are willing to trust that God knows best in every detail of our lives.  God deserves our thanks and gratitude not only when we are happy with our circumstances, but also when we are suffering, disappointed, or when we do not understand why a difficult situation is happening.

-          Remember that rejoicing is a decision – primarily an act of the will, not of the emotions.  Do not give into the enemy’s attacks of discouragement.

 “Do all things without grumbling or disputing; that you may prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world,”  Philippians 2: 14 – 15


Complaining and Murmuring

-          Whenever we complain, we are actually complaining against the Lord.  Complaining demonstrates that we are not fully trusting God.



-          The Lord’s command is not simply that we do not complain, but that we actually rejoice in suffering!  Think about our Lord’s suffering on the cross and consider what is written in scripture:

“Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance, and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.  For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.”  Hebrews 12: 1 – 3

-          Jesus was made perfect through suffering.

“It was fitting that God . . . should make the author of their salvation perfect through suffering" (Hebrews 2:10).

The whole earthly life of Jesus is summed up in one phrase. He was made “perfect through suffering.” But wasn’t Jesus perfect when he was born in the manger? And didn’t he live a sinless life? Wasn’t his death the death of an innocent man? 

Yes. He was morally perfect. That is one kind of perfection or completion.  But there is another kind of perfection or completion that comes only by experience. Jesus entered fully into the sufferings of this world and emerged victorious over them. He was completed in his experience on the earth by the things he suffered. That is why he may be called the “author” of our salvation.

Christ came to blaze the trail so we might follow him on to glory. But the trail is marked with suffering, with tears, with rejection, and it ultimately leads to the cross. Anyone who follows Jesus will end up where he ended up–outside Jerusalem on a hill shaped like a skull. He is not just leading us to heaven. He is leading us to glory. There is glory at the end of the Christian life. Jesus came from heaven so we might follow him in suffering and like him be made complete through suffering.

That explains so much that happens to us. What is God doing in your life and in mine? He is putting us through the Curriculum of Grace in the School of Suffering. School starts the moment we trust Christ and ends the day we die. How will we ever pass the test and win the degree? By keeping our eyes on Jesus. He’s the valedictorian of the class. He never failed a test. He blazed the trail through the School of Suffering that we might follow in his path. He is leading us to glory one step at a time.

Choose joy in the midst of suffering.

“Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.  And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”  James: 2 – 4

It is possible to see problems as exciting opportunities.  As we purpose to give thanks in everything, we can then wait in expectation to see God’s plan unfold.

“And we know that God causes all things (His choices, your choices, the choices of others…) to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”  Romans 8: 28

-          Be prepared for the tests God may bring into your life this week.  Purpose to give thanks, not complain.