Sensitivity

Bright Lights Set 3 Meeting 2 - Sensitivity

Definitions:

- Awareness of the needs and emotions of others

- Awareness of and responsive to the feelings of others

Scripture:

Philippians 2: 1-4

“If therefore there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interest of others.”

1 Peter 5: 5-7

“You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE to the humble. Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety upon Him, because He cares for you.”

Mark 10: 42 - 45

“And calling them to Himself, Jesus said to the, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and that their great men exercise authority over them. But it is not so among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

Galatians 6: 1 - 2

“Brethren, even if a man is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, each one looking to yourself, lest you too be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ.”

　
Testimonies

Making it relevant

1.) Read pgs. 174 - 176 from Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends

2.) Look at the various levels of cliques that occur within groups:

- the rebellious attract the rebellious and form cliques

- the spiritually weak attract others who are weak and can become a clique

- the spiritually strong attract others who are strong and sometimes, at least, appear to form cliques

But the strongest of all are those who are able to see the needs of the people in all the groups and try to befriend and encourage whoever needs it most. Instead of trying to get their own needs met by friends, they are focusing on others.

3.) Discussion:

Why is it hard to show sensitivity?

Why does it seem harder to show sensitivity at home than with friends?

What are some of the consequences of a lack of sensitivity?

What keeps us from being sensitive?

Main Concepts

1. If you can learn to be focused on others rather than yourself, you have reached a point of true Christian maturity. Few are able to unselfishly give to the needs of others - but those who do are truly following in the footsteps of Jesus.

2. Sensitivity is especially important in your own families and can make a TREMENDOUS difference in relationships with brothers and sisters.

"Bright Lights" Swiss Chard!! :)

Activities and Tea